Someone asked me, “Hey Ryan, what are some cute notes for my boyfriend that will make him appreciate me more?” I loved this question!
Saying cute things isn’t really just about making someone else feel loved. It’s about improving your overall relationship. And that’s why it’s so important and fantastic that the person (she shall not be named for privacy) asked this question.
And why it’s so important that you’re here—also looking for an answer to that question!
My experience with reaffirming messages…
Before we get into the messages, it’s so critical to understand what you’re doing and why. Firstly, if you don’t already know, some people experience and feel love differently than others.
The love language technique has become a simple staple in understanding how various people feel loved. One that sticks out is “words of affirmation.” These types of people feel love when they hear someone else express it through words.
In contrast, those who feel love through physical touch, essentially want the opposite. We know through studies that expressing your love can literally improve your health. But can positive words improve a love relationship?
My first-hand experience with this suggests the answer is “YES!” A guy who gets small messages might be more inclined to put more effort into the relationship. This is a positive outcome for both you and the relationship as a whole.
Tip: Don’t forget to scroll to the bottom, where we give some ideas on when and where to put these cute messages for him.
Best cute notes for your boyfriend
—Cute notes for your boyfriend
When you want to leave him a cute post-it note, you won’t have too much space to write it. You’ll need something that’s cute and short and packs a punch. Try out these messages:
- My love for you grows stronger every day. I care so much about you.
- You’re the best thing to ever happen to me. I’m so thankful for you.
- We are soulmates. You are me. I am you. I love you.
- Together, the world is so small. I love how you make me feel. XOXO.
- There will always be butterflies in my stomach whenever I see you. XOXO!
- I can’t wait until you give me the biggest hug (and maybe a booty grab) later today.
- The day can’t go by fast enough. I don’t know if I’ll be able to wait to see you again.
- There’s a burning fire between us. And between some legs 😉
- I’m madly in love with you. You’re the most incredible man.
- Who knows if the world is ready for this relationship? All I know is that I am! XOXO!
Cheesy and cute notes for your boyfriend
—Cute notes for your boyfriend
A little cheesy message can do the trick at times. It’s somewhere in between cute and sweet. When you’re thinking that you need something kind of flirty and cheesy, try these:
- Every love song now makes sense to me… It’s all because of you.
- You are everything to me and everyone around us.
- You make me feel so special—I will always support you.
- There’s nothing in this world I wouldn’t do for you.
- I’ll follow you until the end of hours—I love you, darling.
- To my prince, the best guy in the world: I love you.
- Smooches tonight the moment you walk in, okay?
- Can’t wait until we snuggle later. I love you.
- Have a wonderful day today, and remember, you’re amazing.
- Nothing else matters except for our love. You’re everything to me!
Sweet and cute notes for your boyfriend
—Cute notes for your boyfriend
Remember, sweet messages help to reinforce your love for him. And they support the development of the relationship (whether he’s your boyfriend, fiancé, or husband). All relationships need nurturing. Try these out:
- You’re so handsome. I love you so much.
- Have a great day today—you’re the best!
- XOXO, I love you!
- Can’t wait to see you later tonight.
- Looking forward to your love and hugs later.
- I’ll be waiting for my kiss when you get home.
- There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you!
- You’re my king. I love you.
- This life is simply better with you in it.
- Time slows when I’m with you.
Romantic and cute notes for your boyfriend
—Cute notes for your boyfriend
When you want to stay romantic with your words and aim to show him that he’s really the most important person in your life. And potentially, the most important thing that’s in your life (right now or in the future):
- I’m so grateful that I have you in my life.
- You make me stronger every day. I love you.
- Love didn’t mean the same thing until I met you.
- Life didn’t have any meaning until I met you.
- You’re the only person that matters to me.
- This relationship is everything to me.
- You’re my number one priority, my love. I love you.
- Wherever you go, I will always support you.
- I vow to care for you and love you until the end of time.
- There’s nothing I would trade in this world in replace of you.
When and where to put these cute notes for your boyfriend
Here are some ideas about when and where to leave a cute message to make him feel the positive impact of your words.
1. Sticky note on the mirror
If you live together or spent the night together, this is a great one. If you don’t have a sticky pad, you can use lipstick or even just a notepad. Any type of scratch paper will do the trick in this scenario. The idea is that he finds it “by accident.” Or that it’s a “surprise” to him.
See also: Deep love messages for him
2. A simple love letter
Writing a love letter by hand is a very kind act. It takes time. It’s different than a text message (which is much faster to produce). The act of writing a letter by hand has increased in value due to the digital world. Take your time, write in cursive, and maybe spray your perfume on it to make sure that he smells you.
Related: Sweet messages for him to make him smile
3. Texting him randomly throughout the day
Sending a text message throughout the day is a great idea. If you’re going to do this, the best way to send one is to make sure that he’s not expecting it. Typically, the afternoon is great for this. Maybe when he’s at work or at school. So the next time he looks at his phone, he’s got a sweet text message from you.
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