Looking for the right flirty texts for him (your guy)? Studies have shown that flirtation and text messaging can go hand-in-hand. In fact, positive affirmations through texting can lead to a strong and healthy relationship. In one scientific study, they found that positive affirmations over a two-week period had a strong impact on the health of a relationship.
What does this mean for you? It means that sending the right signals to your crush, boyfriend, husband, or interested party is a great way to build a connection and see where it takes you.
My own experience with flirting…
When I was younger, I thought of myself as quite the “ladies man.” Or at least I thought so! The reality is that I was kind of full of myself… I was most likely deterring people that I wanted to be in a relationship with because of it.
Learning some basic tips really helped me quite a bit. Some of those included:
- Being myself – I know this sounds silly… But being myself was the key. If I thought something was funny, then the other person did, too.
- Knowing who I am – Advice that we hear all the time. But it’s true! Once I had a better understanding of who I was, I started to connect with others better.
Flirty texts for him—flirty texts to send to that guy you like
—Best flirty texts for him
- Hey stranger, it’s time we got acquainted!
- Why don’t you come over? I am alone.
- Waiting for your text is like waiting for an eternity.
- I dreamt about you last night, but I can’t tell what I dreamt!
- How about coffee this Saturday?
- I don’t have any plans this weekend. Just saying!
- Your favorite things in the world are here – beer, pizza, and me!
- Let’s take a day off and spend some time together.
- When I am with you, it’s like I am on cloud nine.
- You are such a delight to be around, I hope you know that.
- I just saw a romantic movie, and it reminded me of you.
- Tell me honestly, do you wait for my texts?
- You looked so handsome when we met last.
- You are the one I think of when I fall asleep.
- I don’t know what to wear tonight, will you help me?
- Sweet dreams, handsome! 😉
- You always make me feel important, and I appreciate that!
- You know I like you a lot, so I don’t have to say it every time.
- I think I should delete all dating apps. I have found a permanent date 🙂
- If you drop in tonight, I will make it worth it.
- Time we stop texting and start meeting regularly.
- I wanna have fun, why don’t you come over?
- Did anyone tell you that you have the best eyes?
- You are really special, and I want to put it on record.
- Netflix is on, but no one to chill with! Interested?
- How about reading a book together in the hammock?
- The first thing I need, even before coffee, is a message from you 🙂
- Let’s blow off steam together, shall we?
- Let’s go for a horror movie. I won’t be scared if you are there!
- When I wake up in the morning, I always think of you first.
- We met 5 mins back, but I already miss you a lot.
- I see you smiling when I close my eyes, and I feel so warm.
- I know of one way in which my day could become better.
- Wouldn’t it be fun if I could be kissing you instead of missing you?
- I am feeling homesick… and you are my home.
- I am not an ace at photography, but I can picture us together!
- I am the FBI, and you are top on my most wanted list.
Related: Fun questions to ask a guy
Short and flirty messages—flirty text messages for him
—Short flirty texts for him
- Are you going to be the first to say that you like me?
- I am feeling hungry, and I don’t want food.
- Did you know you are very contagious?
- How I wish that kiss could be never-ending.
- You must be Siri because you autocomplete me!
- You are the best distraction in my life 😉
- Do you prefer a hug or a kiss?
- Who is your type, and why is it me?
- Let’s meet on a day that ends with ‘y’.
- Can you guess what I am wearing now?
- I hate to see you go whenever we hang out 🙁
- I am in the mood for a cuddle!
- I wish I could drown in your eyes.
- Are you my dream guy, or are you for real?
- Do I have to text first every time?
- Let’s have dinner. I am the dessert!
- My favorite love story is …. Ours!
- You are the one who matters to me.
- My favorite place is where you are.
- Remembering our first kiss!
- I need you like right now.
- Why are you so cute?
- Having butterflies thinking about our date!
- I need you in my life.
- The best gift God gave me was you!
- I could text you till morning.
- Out of sight, but not out of mind.
- I am your gift. Unwrap me!
- I need your scent on my pillow.
- Tonight is the night!
- Make my dreams come true.
- Texting you is so much fun.
- What are you wearing now?
- You are my universe.
- My life has been brighter since I met you.
- You mean a lot to me, a lot!
- I smile when I think of you.
- My friends are so jealous of us 🙂
- The way you laugh is special.
- I wish I was in your arms right now.
- Am I on your ‘to-do list’? Will you ‘do’ me?
- My heart skips a beat when I see you.
- I want to wake up with you!
- I can’t focus, and I blame you!
- Will you dream about me tonight?
- Sending you hugs and kisses.
- You are there for me, and I am comfy. I love it.
- I have a surprise for you tonight.
- Were you waiting for my text?
- In the mood for love, come over!
Related: Questions to ask a guy over text
Long and flirty ones
—Long flirty texts for him
- It’s been so long since we met in person. How about meeting up this weekend?
- When I see your name in the notification popup, a smile popups on my lips.
- I am in the mood for adventure. How about going hiking this weekend?
- It’s not going to be a productive day for me today. I am going to keep thinking about you.
- I always thought it was impossible to find anyone who was perfect until I met you.
- I have become a much better person since I met you, so thank you so much for everything.
- When I stare at the stars in the sky, I can see you there, looking back at me.
- I have a severe addiction to you, and I am in need of another dose.
- Send me your best pic, I need to tell Santa what to get me for Christmas.
- I never knew there was something called love at first text! It happened to me!
- You must be a magician! When I see you, everyone else in the room vanishes!
- My best friend was asking me if you think I am hot! What do I tell her?
- I am in the mood for a workout. But I don’t want to hit the gym. Any solution?
- You are single, and so am I! This is a problem I think we can solve if we get together.
- I think I am in the mood for a kiss. What are you going to do about it?
- Heyy, you remind me of someone! Got it now… you look like my next boyfriend.
- When I look at myself in the mirror, I feel something is missing. You, next to me!
- I lost my teddy bear, and I need something to hug. I just gave you an offer. Interested?
- Can you tell me the color of my eyes? You can have a close look before answering!
- There’s so much I want to tell you … and I can’t fit all of that into one text!
- Finding it difficult to focus today! It’s all because of you … thinking of you non-stop!
- How about a bed and breakfast? I’ll get the breakfast, and you can take care of the bed 😉
Related: Questions to ask a guy
Sweet and flirty messages to send to him
—Sweet and flirty texts for him
- Thinking of you for hours, and it’s only 9 am!
- If you are chatting with me, who’s running heaven?
- Stop smiling. You make me go crazy!
- I wish I were your shirt, so I could always hug you.
- I forgot how to be sad since I met you.
- My hand feels empty without your hand in it.
- I was asked what I would like to take with me to a deserted island. I chose you!
- How about going for a long drive?
- When I get a notification, I hope to see your name there.
- I got a new lipstick with a strawberry flavor. Like the taste of strawberry?
- I have a book entirely about you. It’s called ‘my diary.’
- The first thing I see when I wake up is your photo on my phone.
- I am the luckiest girl on earth.
- You understand me better than anyone else on earth.
- People can’t live without water. You are water for me!
- I have a king-sized bed, but no king in it!
- Waiting to fast-forward the week until I get to the point where we meet.
- My formula for happiness – you + me.
- Remembering how you made me feel special on my birthday.
- I have a great view in front of me, but it is nothing without you.
- I don’t like the wait three-day rule, so texting you right away!
- Why do you post such pics? You make my heart skip beats.
- It’s not fair. Why did God make you so handsome?
- I am Sleeping Beauty waiting for my prince to wake me up.
- If you borrow a kiss from me, I will return it with compound interest.
- Let’s continue this conversation in person.
- I have been a bad girl. I think I need a spanking!
- I got up sweating, you were in my dream, and it was hot!
- Heyy, do you miss me? Yes or yes?
- It’s time we went on a date, what do you think?
- I have been practicing yoga poses a lot. Wanna see them?
- I like you, so what will you do about it?
- Congrats! You won an award for being the sweetest person on earth.
- You are a thief! You stole my heart.
Related: Questions to ask your crush
Cute texts for him—cute flirty messages just for him
—Cute and flirty texts for him
- I hate most people. You are, of course, an exception 🙂
- Saw a really cute guy on TV …. and I remembered you!
- I thought of you first thing when I woke up in the morning.
- We could keep texting like this all night.
- When I pick up my phone in the morning, I always hope to see your text.
- The first and last message I text every day is to you.
- I can’t wait for the weekend when we can finally meet.
- Time to hit the sack. I hope to dream about you 😉
- Getting a message from you early morning cheers me up.
- I am so glad that you are there in my life.
- It’s been an hour since you texted me…. seemed like years!
- No one makes me laugh as much as you do.
- I am so lucky that I get to chat with you.
- Amazing how I keep thinking of you all day long.
- I was smiling the whole day thinking of you.
- Feeling really cold, I could do with some warming…
- I am so lucky to have you as my special friend.
- I am counting the minutes to I see you again.
- Every time I see you, I feel you are cuter than before.
- I am in serious trouble. I can’t stop thinking about you.
- Do you like peanut butter and chocolate? Well, I am chocolate …
- You always make me flush, even when you text me!
- We just met last night, but I feel it’s been ages…
- If you are not there, the sunshine is missing in my life.
- A day without talking to you is truly a day wasted.
- Heyy, when I came home I realized something was missing … that was you!
- When I got up, I thought how nice it would be to wake up with you.
- You know what? I would miss you even if we had never met.
- You are the reason why I want to get up in the morning daily.
- I always smile when I think about the time we first met.
- Did someone tell you that you are cute?
- Let’s keep in touch! I think you got the message. Now let’s touch…
- Wanna see a pic of my crush? Go look in a mirror.
Related: How to flirt over text
Subtle flirty ones
—Subtle flirty texts for him
- Hey, it was so nice talking to you <name>. We should have more conversations.
- I had fun chatting with you today, <name>.
- It is good fun talking to you, see you later <name>.
- Good night <name>, it was great talking to you today.
- I hope you enjoyed our chat as much as I did!
- So, how was your day today? Had fun?
- Can you even guess what I dreamt about last night?
- I was thinking of you.
- Busy day today, but we can catch up sometime later.
- It wasn’t a great day today, but at least I can relax now while chatting with you. My favorite person 😉
- Hectic day today. The only free time is dinner time. But, thinking of you.
- So, how’s your schedule for the day? Busy the entire day?
- Any plans for the weekend, or still haven’t thought about it yet?
- I really liked your DP.
- I read your favorite author today and immediately remembered you.
- Heyy, I hope you had a fun day today! Anything special?
- I had been out with some friends today and had a nice time. How about you?
- Heyy, that blue T-shirt really looked good on you.
- Thanks for liking my post.
- Thanks for accepting my friend request, handsome!
- Your style is fantastic, I just love it.
- I am in the mood for coffee with a friend!
- I am not having a good day and would like some cheering up
- We chatted yesterday, right? Don’t know why I feel like it’s been ages!
- I could keep chatting all night, but I have to go to sleep now 🙂
- Feeling on top of the world today, how about you?
- I think you should start following me … on Insta!
- Great fun texting you. We must catch up for coffee sometime.
- It’s been a really boring day. Chatting with you cheered me up.
- I have been thinking about you all day ….
- I have a wine bottle waiting to share with someone.
- Are you coming for the <event> weekend? It would be good to see you in person.
- It looks like you are spending a lot of time at the gym!
- I feel so glad you are there as a friend to me.
- I was feeling down, but I am smiling after seeing your messages.
Flirty text messages for him—images to share
Images to share with your dream guy.
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