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Long Goodnight Messages for Her

A visitor asked me the other day, “Ryan, what are some long goodnight messages for her that I can use?” I love that our readers appreciate goodnight texts and messages to send. They’re such a fantastic way to show your love.

In fact, a study conducted in 2017 showed that there’s predictably higher marital satisfaction in relationships that have a higher degree of communication. The study can easily show the impact of frequent and intentionally loving communication styles.

My experience with sending goodnight texts and messages…

I’m a big fan of sending goodnight texts. And good morning texts, too! It’s a great way for a guy to show a girl that he’s interested in her. It’s a sincere and sweet gesture that’s easy to execute and goes a long way.

I’ve sent good morning and goodnight texts to people I care about for at least 6 years now. And I’ve learned that each person finds them to be impactful to their lives.

Long romantic ones to use

—Long goodnight messages for her: long and romantic ones

  • Love, you are everything to me. You have enriched my life, and I will always be grateful to God for putting you on my path. Even if I’m not perfect, I want you to know that I would sacrifice anything for you.
  • I have a deep-seated conviction that I adore you. I’ll always love you. I want you to be aware of this because it is true in my heart. I’m prepared to demonstrate to you what it means to be loved. In every way, you have made my life better, and I could not possibly adore you more. Have a lovely day, my dear.
  • I have never had a relationship as lovely and wonderful as this one, and I never will. You are unique and lovely, just the way you are. Nothing compares to the love you have for me. And you are the center of all I do, my darling. I eat, sleep, and exist for you. Your love puts out every flame of anguish and pain in my heart like a fountain of water. More than love itself, I adore you.
  • You unexpectedly entered my life and, without a doubt, improved it. I appreciate you being here, my darling. Our time together has been one of my most treasured memories. To the sky and back, I adore you.
  • To whom should I give thanks for bringing you into my life? For me to be so fortunate, someone must be watching out for me. Whoever they may be, I will always be appreciative.
  • Thank you for challenging Aphrodite; I’m sure the lovely goddess envies you. You are a beam of sunshine that may scorch all in its path with the strength of your beauty. You also have the cutest smile, and it melts my heart.
  • The most surprising moments of true love are free of charge. The fact that it is full of attractions for some people makes it much more intriguing. I’m one of the fortunate ones. I adore you.
  • Before you entered the picture, my life lacked a certain something. My life has entirely changed since I met you. You have many different scents inside of you, like a flower. I appreciate you adding your love’s colors to my life. I adore you.
  • I am so glad we discovered each other because I can sense your heart throbbing in my chest. I’d be lost without you. Making each day we spend together better compared to the previous one is what I want to do for the remainder of my life. Our love becomes deeper; it never ages. It is like a lovely rose that never withers.
  • I want you to know that my devotion to you is genuine. Nothing will change the fact that you and I both exist inside of one another. You are a treasure worth saving for all of the time, and I am prepared to spend the remainder of my life adoring you.

See also: I am sorry for hurting you my love

Sweet ones to use for her—long goodnight messages to her that are sweet and sincere

—Long goodnight messages for her: sweet ones

  • I hope your dreams are as gentle and lovely as your kiss. Until tomorrow, my Princess.
  • I adore you just as much as flowers like rain, as much as a stroll down memory lane. Stay warm, my love.
  • I hope you have a comfy cushion, warm blankets, and lots of thoughts about how much I cherish you. Good night, sweetheart.
  • May you go comfortably to sleep as the velvety darkness envelops you in a silent hug of warmth.
  • Tomorrow represents a fresh new start. Good night, my darling.
  • I look forward to the day I awake next to you, realizing my dream. Till then, my darling, good night!
  • As you nod to sleep, may the soothing sounds of a hundred angels’ wings keep you and soothe you. Until tomorrow, my Princess!
  • May God’s hands guard you in His caring on a night so beautiful and love so uncommon. Goodnight, my Love.
  • May the moon lead you to the realm of pleasant dreams with her lovely light while the stars keep watch.
  • Listen intently as the stars soar across the night sky to hover above your sound slumber as you close your eyes, relax, and clear your thoughts. Goodnight, sweetheart!
  • Your unique lullaby glitters in the sky at night like notes played by the stars. Good night, my love.
  • I want your future with me to be so lovely that you wonder whether you’re dreaming when you’re awake or if that is really happening.
  • We are comforted and bound in faith by the wonder of love tonight because we know we shall see one another again.
  • Close your eyes while keeping your heart open. Feel my love extending to the stars.
  • You rule over my universe; you are the star in my sky at night and the sunshine at my picnic. I cherish you. Good night, my love!
  • Your lovely eyes are reading this while your skin softly shines in the phone light, and your hair rests lightly on your skin. I wish I could be there.
  • We’ll be back together as soon as the sun rises to usher in another day. I am eager. Till then, good night, sweetheart.
  • We are comforted and bound in faith by the wonder of love tonight because we know we shall see one another again.

Ones to use after a tough week

—Long goodnight messages for her: after a tough week

  • I wish you a good night and only beautiful dreams.
  • Good night, sweetheart! I’m sending you my best wishes and warmest hugs.
  • Goodnight, my love! I wish you a restful sleep and a bright morning filled with fresh possibilities.
  • May your night be filled with stars and moonlight. Good luck tonight.
  • Good night, my darling. I wish you a wonderful night of sleep tonight, guided by the bright stars. Rest well.
  • Thanks to God for a good night’s sleep and an additional day to live before bed. Good night my love. May God bless you.
  • May the moon illuminate your dreams and the stars shine brightly for you. good night.
  • Goodnight, my love. I hope you’re getting a good night’s sleep and will wake up feeling rested tomorrow.
  • I praise God every night before going to sleep for giving me you. Baby, good night.
  • Good night, my friend. I hope you sleep well and enjoy yourselves tonight.
  • Try to think about tomorrow and wish for a pleasant dream. No matter how awful the day went, strive always to finish it with a smile. Good night, my love.
  • When the first light of the day wakes me up, I think of you. And the last thing I do before I shut my eyes for the night is to make my surroundings bright and my heart merry. Good night, my darling.
  • Goodnight, my love! I have a severe emptiness in my life when you’re not here. Let’s meet in my dream tonight, regardless of how far apart we are, so I can say anything I want to.
  • I wish you many pleasant dreams tonight. You are my life, love, and my saviour. Good night, sweetheart.
  • Quit worrying about the future. No matter what, I’ll always have your back. Good night, my love.
  • I hope tomorrow is sunny and happy. Good night, sweety.
  • Give yourself some relaxation when the moon sets and everything becomes silent. Let’s hope your sleep is as enjoyable as you are.
  • Put your troubles aside and allow your body to enjoy the warmth and comfort of your blanket and bed. I hope you sleep soundly tonight!
  • Goodnight, my love. You’re going to enjoy a fantastic day on Monday. Just ensure that your body is ready to face tomorrow’s problems. Rest well!
  • Have the most comfortable night’s sleep, and may each of your dreams come true. Sleep peacefully.
  • The night is a gift from God. Don’t let this blessing go away by remaining awake. Good night, my friend. Get a good night’s sleep tonight!

Ones to use after a good week—long goodnight messages to use

—Long goodnight messages for her: after a long week

  • It’s a delight and a laugh to be with you every day. I have a reason to smile every day because of you; I appreciate that. I hope you can share more than just my fantasies with me during the nights. Good night, lovely.
  • I love being your friend; it’s so much fun. Think of yourself as more than that. I look forward to the time when I will be able to hold you and rock you to sleep. I wish you a wonderful night right now.
  • It makes me unhappy not to be around you all the time. I long for the time when we won’t have to be apart. I wish you a wonderful night right now.
  • I just want you to know that my love for you grows every day and night. I’m dying all over again as I write this good-night text to you.
  • I want you to realize this before you go to sleep: I’m enjoying every moment of your voice melting my soul and your smile making me smile. Good night, sweetheart.
  • I’ll keep you in my thoughts so you won’t drift away from my dreams. Until tomorrow, good night, angel.
  • So that I’m able to see you every time I close my eyes, I beg God to guide you into my dreams while you’re asleep. Good night, lovely.
  • In order to have a decent night’s sleep, I’ll be pretending to be you while embracing my pillow. I really miss you.
  • Good night, my darling; you make me happier. I want to spend an evening with you. God knows how much I yearn to spend the night with you. I’ll see you during my sleep.
  • I wish you a pleasant night, but that’s not all. I wish you all the warmth, love, and care you have shown me since entering my life.
  • Everything about you makes me think of you. It’s the moon tonight. Go outside, look at it, consider it while you sleep, and always know that I am thinking of you. Until tomorrow, good night, my darling.
  • Holding you in my arms is the one thing I dream of every night. But since that’s not feasible right now, I’ll just embrace you in my heart instead. 
  • No matter how at ease I am, hugging good night to you always makes my night complete.
  • Goodnight, my sweetheart; have the best dreams ever.

Cute messages to use

—Long goodnight messages for her: cute ones

  • I bid you good night, dear woman. I hope your day was lovely and you feel as stunning as ever when you wake up tomorrow. To the sky and back, I adore you.
  • Hey, pretty. Are you aware that I enjoyed myself while thinking of you today? I’m hoping you had a good day as well. Have a nice night, and when you wake up in the morning, I’ll be here for you.
  • Until tomorrow, my dear girl. I love you so much that getting out of bed every morning is worth it.
  • My love, you are the last thought in my head before I go to sleep and the first thought in my head when I wake up. I appreciate that you made me feel so blessed and unique. Until tomorrow, dream on.
  • You are the last thought I have before I go to sleep and the very first thought I have when I wake up, my sweetheart. Dreamy dreams. I adore you a lot.
  • Good night to the woman who entered my life and fulfilled all of my desires. I don’t want to wake up if you are a dream.
  • Dear, close your eyes and imagine the future. They assert that a perfect existence does not exist. They seem to have no concept of what possessing you in my existence is like.
  • Good night to the lady that makes me smile and can miraculously make all my problems gone with a little kiss. Honey, I adore you.
  • My dear woman, I assume your day has been just as wonderful as yours. Rest well and get enough sleep so that it will be time for the big event when you wake up tomorrow. Goodnight.
  • Oh, my dear, I hope you had a good day. A lot was happening, and I was delighted with you at every turn. I hope you have a restful night of sleep since you are tough and gorgeous. I cherish you.
  • For once, I want to enter your dreams and tell you how much I adore you. Good night, Darling.
  • You have my undying love. I’m in no position to continue to wait for the day when we shall spend the rest of our lives together. We only have a few more nights together until we can be together forever, and this is among them.
  • Let me reassure you that I’ll be at your side, guarding and loving you forever. Good night, beautiful dreams, my dear!

Ones to use to make her feel special—long goodnight messages for her

—Long goodnight messages for her: to make her feel special

  • Are you aware of what is transient? All these things—this night, the moon, and the stars—will go in the morning. But what is permanent, exactly? Our love is enduring and unending. Until tomorrow, good night, my darling.
  • You might not notice, but I still get goosebumps whenever I see you. Even when we are together, I still look forward to seeing you in my fantasies. Until tomorrow, good night, my darling.
  • I am intended to be with you forever, just as the moon and sun are destined to rise at certain times. My dear, have a lovely and fantastic night.
  • May your bed be comfortable, your blankets cozy, and your thoughts be full of how dearly I cherish you. Until tomorrow, my darling.
  • I long for the day when I’ll wake up beside you, living out my fantasy. Until then, my love, have sweet dreams.
  • I constantly think about you before I go to sleep at night, and you help me feel at ease and transform my nightmares into pleasant dreams. Good night, sweetheart; you are loved.
  • May this night clear your mind of all your gloomy and unsettling ideas and fill it with many pleasant dreams in which we are together. I hope you have a pleasant night, my love.
  • Because of you, my existence is full. May you have vibrant dreams. Lie down soundly, my love.
  • Sleeping apart from you is an absolute pain. I wish I could feel your lips and your smooth skin on mine. I hope you have a wonderful night and a restful sleep. 
  • According to some astronomers, Sirius is the star with the highest brightness in the night sky. They don’t make sense to me. I’ve never seen stars as dazzling as your lovely eyes. Sleep well, sweetie.

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Ryan Sanderson (LCSW) Ryan is a game and relationship enthusiast who enjoys all things quizzes, games, fun, love, relationships, and family. He's a licensed social worker and helps families, couples, and children in need. He's spoken about love and relationships on Salon.com, Forbes, and Mirror, to name a few.

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