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Messages to a Cheating Girlfriend

She said to me, “Ryan, what are some satisfying messages to a cheating girlfriend that I can send?” I started to think to myself, this is going to be a steamy topic! But I like it!!

It hurts to be cheated on, especially by someone you trusted and truly loved. You’re immediately met with sorrow, despair, grief, rage, and a discography of negative emotions. You’re left heartbroken and defeated, too fragile to even have conversations.

In this scenario, it might be difficult to think of what to say to your cheating girlfriend, especially if you want to hurt her. Throwing a flurry of insults is the easy way to go, but is it effective? We think not. Use our list of pre-written text messages instead.

Messages to a Cheating Girlfriend

—Really amazing messages to a cheating girlfriend to make her cry!

Quotes by famous personalities:

Want to send her a text that makes her regret ever cheating on you? These famous quotes on cheating ought to poke a hole in her treacherous heart!

  • “I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”

This eye-opening quote from the famous philosopher and poet Friedrich Nietzsche talks about how cheating makes you lose trust in the one person you always believed in. If your girlfriend has any sense, he’ll beg you to take her back.

  • “You didn’t just cheat on me; you cheated on us. You didn’t just break my heart; you broke our future.”

This powerful quote by the author Steve Maraboli touches on how cheating destroys an entire future—heavy stuff. Let her know that he ruined something that could have grown into a beautiful feeling.

  • “Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just happen. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into someone else’s mouth!”

Once caught, she might insist that it ‘just happened’ before she could even react. This quote by author Gemma Halliday is the best reply for traitors like her.

  • “There’s something wrong with your character if opportunity controls your loyalty.”

Your girlfriend might try to rid herself of the blame by insisting it only happened because he was at a party and was too drunk to control his urges. This quote from athlete and author Trent Shelton rightfully explains that having ample opportunities doesn’t remove the responsibility of staying loyal.

Insulting Text Messages

Some cheaters are beyond repair; they’ll never admit their mistakes or care about the person they’ve hurt. If this sounds like your girlfriend, we advise taking a no-holds-barred approach. Here are some custom messages that’ll hit her right where it hurts!

  • I thought Barbie was fake, but you definitely took it up a notch.
  • All this while, I thought you had taken my breath away. Turns out I was choking from all your shi*t.
  • Your parents should have used a condom; there’s too much pollution in the world.
  • I saw something that reminded me of you. But I flushed it and left the bathroom.
  • What language are you speaking? Cos, it sounds like horseshi*t to me.
  • I’m not a cactus expert, but I know a prick when I see one.
  • I would punch you, but I don’t abuse animals.
  • Why are you confused? I’m not insulting you; I’m describing you.
  • By the way, I heard she has chlamydia. Good luck.
  • Stop talking; the bullshi*t is stinking up my room!
  • Your side chick called looking for you; I told her I don’t let snakes inside the house.
  • The dump truck will drive by your house tomorrow morning to pick up the trash; pack yourself and be ready.

See also: Messages to a cheating boyfriend

Messages That Feel Like A Slap Across The Face

Do you want to send a dramatic message that sends her a knockout blow? These impactful text messages might just do the trick. Let her know the gravity of her mistake and exit like a boss!

  • We could have had a beautiful future, but I guess you were more interested in cheap thrills. Thank you for showing me your true side. Now I can finally stop dating a clown and move on to a real man. All the best, you’ll need it.
  • I hope you know that you mean nothing to me now. I won’t pick up your calls or reply to your texts anymore. The new me doesn’t have time for garbage. Have a terrible life.
  • After everything I’ve done for you, this is how you repay me? You have a strange concept of rewarding someone’s loyalty, care, and love. I’d say I’ve lost all respect for you, but now that I think about it, I never could respect you for some unknown reason; well, now I know. It was my scumbag cheater radar going off the charts! Away with you, pig.
  • You know what? I don’t regret meeting you. At least now I know what it’s like to date a beta male. I feel like I’ve finally squished a leech that’s been sucking my blood. Good riddance.

Final Thoughts—Messages to a Cheating Girlfriend

We hope these text messages were worthy of your consideration. Stay strong, and don’t hold anything back; bombard her with everything you’ve got! We wish you all the best in life.

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About the author

Ryan Sanderson (LCSW) Ryan is a game and relationship enthusiast who enjoys all things quizzes, games, fun, love, relationships, and family. He's a licensed social worker and helps families, couples, and children in need. He's spoken about love and relationships on Salon.com, Forbes, and Mirror, to name a few.

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