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Questions Girls Are Afraid to Ask Guys

There are some questions that girls are afraid to ask guys, yes there are! These questions are typically on a girls mind. Whether they are in a relationship with you or not. If you’re a girl, you’ll be reading these questions and thinking to yourself, “Glad someone said it!” If you’re a guy, it’s probably best to know that these questions are coming sooner rather than later.

Here are the top questions girls are afraid to ask guys!

Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

My experience with building friendships/relationships…

If you’re asking any type of questions to a person you want to build a friendship with, then my story is for you… I was awkward. An odd little kid who maybe didn’t connect with too many adults or other children…

I wanted friends pretty badly! I mean, very badly! Learning the right types of questions to ask to build relationships was the key for me… And I hope it is for you, too!

My best tip! It only takes 30 seconds of courage to ask someone a question and see where it goes. Remember that!

Questions girls are afraid to ask guys about life

  • Do you ever listen in on my girl talk?
  • What do you say when you are having locker room talk with your guy friends?
  • Do you think you want to get married in the future?
  • How many kids do you want to have in the future?
  • What values do you currently want to work on?
  • Do you think that our relationship will continue to last?
  • Who is a negative influence on you and your life right now?
  • Is there anyone that you admire and want to be more like?
  • What would happen if I found out that you like to wear women’s clothing?
  • What’s one of your sexual fantasies that you don’t like to tell people about?
  • Would you ever forgive cheating in a relationship?
  • Is it a big deal if a girl cheats on a guy?
  • Is it a big deal if a guy cheats on a girl?
  • Do you think that you’ll ever change or are you going to stay the person that you are right now?
  • When is the last time that you took a girl home with you from the bar?
  • Should guys meet girls online?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

Questions girls are afraid to ask guys about love

  • What’s the worst first date idea you can think of?
  • Would you ever give me a bro hug after a first date?
  • How many girls have you been with?
  • What do you guys talk about when girls aren’t in the room?
  • Do you think that men share gossip just as much as girls do?
  • Why do guys prefer girls that have really blonde hair?
  • Do you think that other guys would want to be with me?
  • What’s your perfect way to spend time with the person that you’re interested in?
  • Are men losing their sex drive in life? If so, how do we fix this?
  • If I had stretch marks, would you still be into me?
  • Do you like it when I don’t wear makeup? Or do you only think I’m pretty when I’m wearing a lot of makeup?
  • Do you want children someday?
  • Is it possible for men and women to only be “just friends?”
  • If one day I became handicapped, would you still stay with me or would you dump me?
  • What’s something that you would absolutely dump me over but other people might find kind of shallow?
  • Do you think that I’m a shallow person or am I a good person?
  • What qualities do you really like in another woman that I don’t seem to have?
  • Do you have a certain clothing preference when it comes to how your girlfriend should look?
  • What runs through guys minds all day long while they’re at work?
  • Do you think that relationships are made on the basis that people are recreating the relationships their parents had?
  • What if a girl asked you to go into the closet with her randomly, would you go?
  • Do girls send you text messages or photographs of themselves?
  • Have you ever been to a strip club?
  • Should women pursue guys or what?
  • What if we had more money, what would we do with it?
  • Would you ever be with multiple girls at the same time?
  • Why do men want girls badly?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

Random questions girls are afraid to ask guys

  • Do you think that I’m cute?
  • Why didn’t you complement me on my hair today?
  • Why didn’t you complement me on how I looked today?
  • Where do you want to go out to eat tonight?
  • Do you think that I’m getting fat?
  • Do you think that I’m going to be an attractive older woman?
  • Do you think that I’m going to get fat when I get older?
  • What would you think about us having multiple partners in this relationship?
  • Can I tell you things about yourself that you’d be willing to change?
  • Is there anything that I do that really annoys you?
  • What would you do if I secretly fell in love with your dad and we took off without ever being seen again?
  • If we were stranded on a deserted island, would you be able to stay with me?
  • What’s something that I do that really annoys you but you can’t seem to tell me about it?
  • Do you like falling sleep next to me or am I not fun to fall asleep next to?
  • Where do you see this relationship going in the next few months?
  • Do you think that we fight a little too much?
  • Do you think that you would be uncomfortable if I asked to see all of your Instagram direct messages?
  • Has any girl texted you on Snapchat recently?
  • If a random girls’ shoe fell off, would you help her get it back on?
  • If there was a bachelorette party who wanted to kiss you, would you let them do it or would you tell them that you were in a relationship?
  • How many girls are you currently talking to right now?
  • Are you on any dating applications that I don’t know about?
  • Where do you see this relationship going in the future?
  • Do you think that your mom will like me?
  • Do you think that your dad will like me?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

Questions girls are afraid to ask guys about relationships

  • Why do you think that guys ghost girls sometimes?
  • What do you think makes a girl sexually attractive to you?
  • What do you think makes a girl sexually attractive to other men?
  • Do you think that we would have period sex?
  • Do you want to be in a serious relationship?
  • What do you think makes guys feel insecure?
  • What makes you feel insecure about yourself?
  • What do you think makes a really healthy relationship? How can we make ours more healthy?
  • Are men into romantic movies and just don’t tell anyone?
  • Generally speaking, what’s the worst thing that you’ve ever done with an ex?
  • What’s your love language?
  • What do you think my love language is? And is it having an impact on our relationship?
  • What’s my most attractive feature?
  • Do you watch porn at night?
  • Would you ever enjoy watching girls making out with each other?
  • Is it important how a girl dresses?
  • Do you think it’s weird when girls have guy friends?
  • What do you think girls talk about when men aren’t in the room?
  • Why do guys tend to go for the high-maintanence girl?
  • Is it possible that this relationship could end up as “just friends” status?
  • Who is someone that you go to when you need relationship advice about us?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

Questions girls are afraid to ask guys about their relationship

  • What do your male friends say about our relationship?
  • What do most guys think of when they have a fantasy?
  • After a few drinks, do you think that we would do something dirty?
  • Do you think that I’m long-term girlfriend material?
  • Do you think that there are other guys attracted to me?
  • Do you think guys care when a girl is the one who wears the pants?
  • Do you think it’s gross when men get intimate while another girl is on her period?
  • Are women’s periods gross to you? Do you understand them?
  • What happens if I started developing feelings for someone at work?
  • Are you into giving gifts or would you rather show your love another way?
  • What if I told you that I loved you a million times, what would you do?
  • Why do men hate rom-coms?
  • What if a really hot girl told you that she was into you, would you make a move?
  • Do you like it when a girl dresses kind of slutty?
  • What was the worst pick up line that you’ve ever used on someone?
  • Did you ever think that you’d be in a relationship with me?
  • If you had to give our relationship a grade, what grade would you give it?
  • What age do you think we will both pass away?
  • Who do you think will pass away first, me or you?
  • Do you think that we are soul mates?
  • Do you think that we were born in past lives and then found ourselves again in this life?
  • Is there a chance that we secretly are not compatible with each other and should break up?
  • Why are you in a relationship with me? Can you tell me the top qualities that makes you want to be with me?
  • What’s your biggest turn-off about this relationship?
  • If you got your girlfriend pregnant, would you propose to her or not?
  • Are you into shy girls or only outgoing girls?
  • Do you think that I could end up in adult videos?
  • What awkward questions do I sometimes ask you that really annoys you?
  • What’s your go-to flirting technique?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

Bold questions girls are afraid to ask guys

  • Are you going to start working out again or this how you look for the rest of your life?
  • If you were starting to get fat, would you want me to tell you about it?
  • If you were really starting to age, would you want me to tell you how to reverse it?
  • If something you did really smelled, would you want me to tell you about it?
  • Can I tell you things that annoy me?
  • Do you want to work out together?
  • Where is the next place you are going to take me for dinner?
  • Is it a big deal if I respond to guys who are direct messaging me on Instagram?
  • What would happen if you found out that I was secretly on a dating app and you didn’t know?
  • What do you think would happen if either one of us found out that we had cheated on the other? Do you think that we would handle it or just break up?
  • If we were to break up, what do you think that we would break up about?
  • What is the next thing that you’re going to buy me?
  • Do you have any surprises for me coming up that you don’t want me to know about?
  • If I found another guy attractive, would you want me to tell you or keep it a secret?
  • Do you want to know which one of your guy friends I find the most attractive?
  • If a guy hits on me, do you want me to tell you about it or keep it a secret?
  • If you were not good in bed, would you want me to tell you about it so we could improve your performance?
  • Would you get embarrassed if one day you couldn’t get it up and moving around?
  • When is the last time that you found me really attractive?
  • Do you still think about me doing bad things when you’re at work?
  • What do you think our first date was really like for you?
  • Did you ever have any second thoughts about getting into a relationship with me?
  • What do you think about happen if I got pregnant?
  • If I was unable to have kids, would you stay with me or not?
  • If I was unable to have kids, would you want to try and adopt children?
  • Do you think that we’re spending all of our time together in the right ways?
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys
Questions girls are afraid to ask guys

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Ryan Sanderson (LCSW) Ryan is a game and relationship enthusiast who enjoys all things quizzes, games, fun, love, relationships, and family. He's a licensed social worker and helps families, couples, and children in need. He's spoken about love and relationships on Salon.com, Forbes, and Mirror, to name a few.

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