Entering a new relationship? Relationship would you rather questions are a great way to get to know your new or potential partner. Questions like, “How do you feel emotional pain?” These are intimate questions. But not as fun as a would you rather question.
Instead, questions like, “Would you rather have all the money in the world or be able to solve world hunger?” Or, “Would you rather be an only child or have ten siblings?” These are fun ways to get to know each other.
Let’s jump right in!
My experience with all game questions like these…
I play games like “would you rather” and “most likely to” with almost everyone that I know. It could be a girlfriend, guy friend, family member, and many other types of people.
My best tip is to try and tailor the game to the people you are playing with. Of course! You would be surprised how few people actually do that, though!
Don’t take the game too seriously, too! It’s about having fun! Make sure you’re laughing. And when YOU are, everyone else will too!
Unique questions
- Would you rather your partner hug you every day or hold your hand every day?
- Would you rather your partner’s parents loved you a lot and were over all the time or didn’t like you?
- Would you rather go on a date night to the movies or to a concert?
- Would you rather have a bad relationship and end it early or a decent one and end it years from now?
- Would you rather wear comfortable clothes or wear fancy clothes?
- Would you rather your parents walk your dog or have a dog walker?
- Would you rather have more money than Elon Musk or be able to solve world hunger?
- Would you rather be in emotional pain or physical pain?
- Would you rather have a photographic memory or no memory at all?
- Would you rather have to spend the night in a haunted house or have to sleep on a bed of needles?
- Would you rather wear your partner’s underwear or a strangers potentially clean underwear?
- Would you rather go on a blind date your parents made or a blind date your friends made?
- Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the smartest person in the room?
- Would you rather play game night or go out to a dance club?
Fun relationship questions
- The following are some fun relationship would you rather questions:
- Would you rather know something disgusting about your partner or see them at their worst?
- Would you rather want your partner to be extremely hairy or be completely hairless?
- Would you rather like your partner have bad breath or lose their eyebrows?
- Would you rather want to the middle of the woods for dating or to a haunting house?
- Would you rather want your partner to be wealthiest individual or the best chef in the world?
- Would you rather want your partner to croon your favorite number or the most hated one?
- Would you rather smell your partner’s socks or smell fish?
- Would you rather be the fun but weird couple in college or the popular and cool one?
Funny relationship questions
- Would you have 500 crickets hopping around in your bedroom or have 1000 Tarantulas jumping in your house?
- Would you rather have toilet paper manufactured from sandpaper or eye drops prepared from vinegar?
- Would you rather be constipated regularly for the next 4 months or have diarrhea on each day for the next 4 months?
- Would you rather have no knees or no elbows if you have to choose one?
- Would you rather live ten lives, which last a century each or have just one life of one thousand years, given a choice?
- Would you rather end all sentences with “lol, I was simply kidding” or start all sentences with the words “Hey Idiot”?
- Would you rather be the only person laughing loudly when someone farts or fart and other people laugh at you?
- Would you rather live in a tree for your entire life or just be a tree yourself?
- Would you rather have a fight with one horse-sized duck or one hundred duck-sized horses?
- Would you rather go around with Brigitte Macron, Michelle Obama, or Melania Trump?
- Would you rather be in a relationship with a big guy to protect you or a short cute guy?
- Would you rather date Captain America, Loki, or Thor?
Weird relationship uestions
- Would you rather write a diary and publish an article on the most embarrassing moment of your life?
- Would you rather become an astronaut or a deep-sea diver?
- Would you rather part from your pet or your favorite laptop?
- Would you rather stay up until 2 am or get up early morning every day?
- Would you rather fly or stop time from ticking away?
- Would you rather not shave again or never suffer from painful cramps again?
- Would you rather not use Emojis for 3 months or stop shopping for 3 months?
- Would you rather have something in your eyes for 6 months or have to sneeze and yet cannot do it?
- Would you rather be happy with a tiny nose or a big smile?
- Would you rather exchange your marriage vows with an individual with a bad image or a vain human being?
- Would you rather sport a Californian accent but reside in Texas or a Texas accent but reside in California?
- Would you rather wear a nose plug or earmuffs all the time?
- Would you rather sleep one hour less than is required to get complete rest or take a shower?
- Would you rather remain asleep for one year or be awake for the entire year?
- Would you rather sport smelly feet or bad breath?
Guy relationship questions
- Would you rather have a relationship with a woman who FaceTimes you or someone who just texts you?
- Would you rather fall in love very fast and start a relationship at the earliest or casually date for some time before making up your mind?
- Would you rather get a gift or give a gift to the girl in your life?
- Would you rather be sleeping next to the love of your life or be all alone during bedtime?
- Would you rather make crucial decisions about love life by listening to your head or heart?
- Would you rather have a partner who has a completely different personality or someone with a similar personality?
- Would you rather be your girlfriend’s last love or first?
- Would you rather send a good night text or a good morning message to your partner?
- Would you rather do household chores or babysit when your spouse is away?
- Would you rather have your girlfriend pay for the meal or you pay for both?
- Would you rather have endless love or endless money?
- Would you rather be without your girlfriend or without Netflix for a year?
- Would you rather be woken up by your partner or by the alarm?
- Would you rather let your date take the first step or make that all-important first move?
- Would you rather be stuck on an island with your latest date or be all alone?
- Would you rather be with your girlfriend on a sea beach or attend a rock concert?
Girl relationship questions
- Would you rather be 25 forever or 16 forever?
- Would you rather be okay with your soulmate poor or want your soulmate to be stinking rich?
- Would you rather get married multiple times or wait to meet your soul mate before getting married?
- Would you rather adopt dogs or cats?
- Would you rather be a ramp model or host a talk show on television?
- Would you rather be a commoner with true friends or be a celebrity with fake friends?
- Would you rather have children later in life after getting professionally settled or have them now?
- Would you rather be a social worker or an online influencer?
- Would you just send text messages or call your boyfriend every night?
- Would you rather prefer going on a romantic candlelight dinner date or having a picnic with your boyfriend?
- Would you rather marry a stranger or your first boyfriend?
- Would you rather enjoy watching a TV sitcom or a movie on the weekend?
- Would you rather appear underdressed or overdressed for a party?
- Would you rather be wealthy and alone or be in love but poor?
- Would you have a disturbed marriage with children or happily married without them?
- Would you rather prefer getting chocolates or flowers as a gift?
Freaky relationship wquestions
- Would you rather draw a comparison between your spouse with your former date or forget all about your past relationships?
- Would you rather date an army soldier or a professional athlete?
- Would you rather earn more than your partner or want them to earn more than you?
- Would you rather sever all ties with your former date or remain friends with them forever?
- Would you rather have a relationship with the hottest one or the honest one?
- Would you rather enjoy a dinner date twice a month or every three days?
- Would you rather enjoy 12 months without a partner or the internet?
- Would you rather find a struggling partner or someone who is already well-settled in life?
- Would you rather prove your love to your partner or let them prove their love for you?
Silly relationship questions
- Would you rather stay in a cabin or on a beach with your partner?
- Would you rather speak loudly or quietly to your partner?
- Would you rather stay with someone else after your marriage or in your old house?
- Would you rather keep quiet on a date or keep chatting with your partner?
- Would you have butterflies in the stomach or goosebumps while on your first date?
- Would you rather watch TV with your partner or watch OTT together?
- Would you rather accompany your date to their office every day or twice a week?
- Would you rather spend time with your partner by listening to some sad music or decade-old music?
- Would you rather entertain your partner by learning an instrument or a new foreign language?
- Would you rather give up sweets or checking your mobile phone to please your love interest?
- Would you rather go with your partner for jogging or work out in the gym together?
- Would you rather settle with your partner in a big city or a small town?
- Would you rather offer a drink or dessert to your date?
- Would you rather your date has short or long hair?
Deep relationship questions
- Would you rather like to know whether you and your partner will live happily ever after or split after a few years?
- Would you rather find your dream job or your true love in life?
- Would you rather be with your partner at home or in the hall to watch a film?
- Would you rather know how to read people’s minds or make your best friend fall in love with you?
- Would you rather never speak your innermost thoughts to your partner or tell them what you are thinking?
- Would you rather be with your love interest on every weekend or once a month?
- Would you rather proclaim your love to your partner every day or once in a while?
- Would you rather dance the Waltz or the Tango with your love interest?
Hard relationship questions
These are some excellent questions to ask while spending time with your friends. So, check them out below:
- Would you rather be a technical person or a creative person?
- Would you rather become famous for an artwork you did not create or create a genius piece but get no credit for it?
- Would you rather stop drinking coffee or let go of your love?
- Would you rather never listen to songs or never fall in love in your life?
- Would you rather delete history or create one for yourself?
- Would you rather have a mediocre career but a loving family to support you or a flourishing career but no family to cheer you up?
- Would you rather be the richest or the smartest person in the world?
- Would you rather be an affluent person or find the love of your life?
- Would you rather loss the capability to read or never hear songs again?
- Would you rather get away with telling lies all the times or can make out if someone lies to you?
Easy relationship questions
Here are some easy relationship would you rather questions:
- Would you rather have everyone detest you, find the love of your life, or not meet the person you love at all?
- Would you rather have someone love you unconditionally but not love them or be madly in love but not loved back by that person?
- Would you rather make someone you were attracted to fall in love with you or not share your emotions with them?
- Would you rather get stuck in a lift with somebody who you love for four days or be with somebody you detest for 12 hours?
- Would you rather rescue 15 strangers or only the person you love?
- Would you rather get settled with the person you love who is poor or someone you detest but is wealthy?
- Would you rather find the love of your life but be unsuccessful or not get love but find success in life?
- Would you rather be bad looking but find the true love of your life or be attractive looking but not find the love you are looking for?
- Would you rather never listen to songs or never love someone?
- Would you rather be loved or respected (feared)?
Intimate relationship questions
- Would you rather stay as someone’s last love or be their first love?
- Would you rather like your partner to declare their love for you first or want to say the three magic words “I love you” first?
- Would you rather like it more to be loved by a person you are not attracted to or love somebody who is not attracted to you?
- Would you rather have your best buddy love you or your crush treat you as their friend?
- Would you rather like to have someone who is madly in love with you but you nor being interested in them?
- Would you rather have six friends who are fully loyal to you or be happily married to your soulmate?
- Would you rather never love or not be ever loved back?
- Would you rather be your 2nd love’s first choice or your 1st love’s second choice?
- Would you rather come across a briefcase with 4 million dollars inside or find the true love in your life?
- Would you rather exchange vows with somebody who has fallen in love with you? Or, you do not love him/her or settle down with somebody who you are attracted to, but they do not love you?
Personal relationship questions
Check out the following personal relationship would you rather questions:
- Would you rather date someone untrustworthy but stinking rich?
- Would you rather never date again, be loyal to your soulmate or date a new person every evening?
- Would you rather marry someone for money over love, or would you like to stay alone?
- Would you rather go around with a selfish partner, be in a long-distance relationship or date a clingy individual?
- Would you rather see somebody who is unemployed, someone who is without manners, or someone who does not own a four-wheeler?
- Would you rather be in a relationship with a person who is different from the kind of morals, personality, or looks you always wished to have in your partner?
- Would you rather be single forever or discover that your partner has been betraying you with your best friend?
- Would you rather have a partner who snores at night, someone your parents do not like or is extremely short?
- Would you rather have a crazy partner, someone who has grown-up kids, your ex, or a person with no experience in dating?
- Would you rather be in a relationship with a person who is a party animal, an introvert, or someone who is a workaholic?
More fun games to play
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